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Most people think of hitting. Far more often it is control: knowing where you are, reading your phone, money that is not yours, and the feeling that you have to justify yourself. It usually alternates with regret and tender moments, which makes you accuse yourself of exaggerating. Doubting is part of the pattern, not a flaw in your judgement.
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