Not every coach is a good coach. Here are the characteristics that separate the professionals from the amateurs.
The 10 Characteristics
- Active Listening - Listens to understand, not to respond. Picks up on what's NOT being said.
- Asks Powerful Questions - Open questions that lead to insight and self-reflection.
- Non-Judgmental - Creates a safe space where you can be completely honest.
- Results-Oriented - Focuses on concrete outcomes, not just talking.
- Holds You Accountable - Follows up on commitments you've made.
- Adaptable - Adjusts approach based on your needs and personality.
- Certified & Trained - Has recognized certifications (ICF, etc.).
- Honest & Direct - Tells you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear.
- Empathetic - Understands your situation without being drawn into it.
- Maintains Boundaries - Knows the difference between coaching and therapy.
Red Flags
- Gives advice instead of asking questions
- Makes promises about specific results
- Has no certification or training
- Pressures you to commit immediately
- Makes it about themselves, not you
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